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How Work Finds You

I am a piano player, that’s what I do.

Workwise, I’m some other things as well: A writer,  a teacher, and an occasional photographer and a once-in-a-while public speaker. Related to work, because they are the things I write about and teach and speak about and photograph and love doing: I’m also a long distance backpacker, a scuba diver, and a traveler. 

You undoubtedly have the same-but-different weird mix of things you do that is part of what makes you YOU. And it’s part of makes your work uniquely YOURS.

The balance changes over the years: In my case, I’m doing more diving now than hiking.  Some years, I do a ton of public speaking, some years not so much. Some years I do more writing, some years more teaching. There’s an ebb and flow with no real plan to it. Things change, and then they change back. But over the course of my work life, the things I listed are the things that are constant. In a very real way, they are a big part of how I define who I am.

What all of this boils down to: These are the things I do, and I do them whether someone is paying me or not.

Which is how I found myself sitting at the piano, playing blues and Chopin, at what used to be called the Troutbeck Travel Writer’s Conference (It’s now called Travel Classics Conference).  I was at the conference to convince editors to buy my stuff; I was at the piano because I play the piano. 

A couple of years later, one of my fellow writers got a lead from an agent who was looking for a piano-player/piano teacher/writer to write a book for the Idiots Guide’s series on playing piano chords. She thought of me because of that night at Troutbeck, and just like that, the Pocket Idiot’s Guide to Piano Chords fell into my lap. At the same time, the same agent was looking for a bass-playing writer to write a bass guitar book, so the Complete Idiot’s Guide to Playing Bass Guitar fell into David’s lap. And now, they’ve come back to us with the Complete Idiot’s Guide to Private Music Teaching, and the Complete Idiot’s Guide to Rock Guitar.

There’s a nugget of a lesson here: We writers and artists spend a lot of time alone. We day dream, we create, we turn over ideas, and some days we don’t get out of our bathrobes  (Okay, I don’t work in my bathrobe, but I KNOW some of y’all do…. I will however cop to not getting out of the house).

And we need to: We need to put what we do in front of people, even if our only motivation is “Hey! There’s a piano piano! And I’m a piano player: Maybe I should play it.”

Good things happen when we put ourselves and our work into the world — when we share what we create  – by design, on a whim, in any way we can.

And now, I’ve got a book outline to complete….

One of the  predictable and seemingly unavoidable side-effects of being a freelancer is that work comes in waves and spurts, priorities get hijacked, new enthusiasms take over, and balance can be hard to find. This blog has been a casualty of that lately.

In this economy, certainly, no freelancer/self employed creative can complain about having too much work. Or about having too many different kinds of work, which is as important. But sometimes, managing them all, and keeping all the balls you’re juggling up in the air can be a bit tricky.

Since  January, for instance: I went to Egypt for the SATW Freelance Council meeting. (An index of the articles I wrote on Egypt — from the new library in Alexandria to hot air ballooning over Luxor — is at http://www.suite101.com/blog/karenberger/resources_about_egypt)

Speaking of Suite 101, I remain as enthusiastic, if not more so.

Here’s the update on THAT: It’s a tough economy right now, and advertising revenues are a bit down, but I have a lot of faith in the financial model for freelancers, and I’ve also got a lot of faith in the Suite101 people. The feeling reminds me of when I was working for GORP.com, back in the first Internet boom and bust cycle — the folks there were absolutely terrific, and created a working environment that was a true partnership. I feel the same way about the folks at Suite 101: My editor is accessible, the technical team is responsive when glitches arise, my fellow writers are professional and supportive on the forums, with none of that “I’m smarter than you” one-upsmanship that I’ve seen on other boards. It’s nice to  feel positive about the people you work with. . .

I got promoted to Feature Writer in the ecotourismvolunteer vacations/adventure travel area. http://volunteerecotravel.suite101.com/ So I’ve been trying to write an article a day for Suite101, which is harder than it sounds; I got behind in Egypt, of course, and haven’t quite caught up yet, but my goal is to have 91 articles up by the end of March. I’m at about 66 or 67 right now, so that looks do-able.  in April, I’m off to Hawaii, then down to Florida for a diving press trip.

Added to all that: I was just offered a contract to write The Complete Idiots Guide to Teaching Music (due in August), and of course, there are those 30 students I see every week, keeping me on my toes (or fingers) working on everything from Mozart sonatas to Chopin preludes to Beatles tunes to jazz improv to finding their fingers number 1, 2, 3, 4, and 5 for the very first time. 

Not to mention spring cleaning, which I’m taking a break from as I write this, and the necessity of doing SOMETHING about the winter weight gain (which to be honest, has been going on for longer than just this winter)…and David is working on  a book, too  (Complete Idiots Guide to Rock Guitar) and he has HIS gazillions of students, plus gigs……

Life is good, and full, but it would be an understatement to say that it’s in any way under control. I’ll be trying to post more often here, because I think we all have to deal with these issues, and maybe we can help each other. In the meantime: If YOU have any suggestions on finding balance, please leave a comment: We all need all the help we can get!

Paperwork

Blech.

It’s THAT time of year again. Well, maybe you’ve already dealt with it, but for me, pulling my tax information together is one of those uber-procrastination issues.

Some of my colleagues use Turbo Tax, and I have a few friends who have recommended it highly, but to tell you the truth, I’d rather clean out a slaughterhouse than try to put my own taxes together. It’s as much an emotional issue as anything — I’d probably need therapy if I had to figure out both a new computer program AND which column what number goes in at the same time. Considering the cost of therapy, an accountant is cheaper in the long run.  I have a very nice competent person who is willing to look at all my various lists and sort them into categories and add everything up and tell me what I owe.  Only downside: He wants my stuff, er — soon.

In nearly 20 years of self-employment, I have figured out a few things to help smooth over a proccess I’m not very good at.

1) Keep good records. Some people use spreadsheet programs like Quicken. I’ve actually drawn up my own Excel program to keep track of income from various income streams. Whatever you do, keep it up to date. I log all checks before depositing them. Cash and barter income has to be accounted for as well, if you have any. (I don’t;  I prefer checks because they are traceable,  but if you’ve got any retail products, you probably have some cash to account for. Keep up with that, because you’ll never remember.)

2) A business checking account and a business credit card separate out business expenses from personal ones.

3) I try to pay for everything with debit card so that I have a receipt record AND a record on my bank account of where all my business expense money went. It’s a back-up system that means I won’t forget any expenses.

4) Keep a log of expenses: What they were, what they were for; how they relate to your business. Ideally, your annual log should have all business related travel expenses, home expenses that have a business application, office and business equipment, repairs, advertising, etc. If you get audited down the road, such a log makes it clear what you were doing, what its purpose was, and how it pertained to your business.  

5) Your accountant is probably pretty busy right now, but after April 15, while things are still fresh, set up a time to talk with him or her, especially if your business has undergone any major changes (such as a new income stream, a new category of expenses, or  you’ve found yourself making significantly more or less than usual).  There may be some things you should be thinking about to get ready for NEXT year.

And now, if you’ll excuse me, I have a bushel-load of papers to go through….

I’m surprised at how much I’m enjoying this new Internet writing project.  It’s nice to know that after all these years of writing for a living I still — love to write.

The formats are tight and inflexible: 400-600 words,  no first person, or even second person (although the imperative is okay).  But I love having an hour or so free, and sitting down and thinking, Okay, I’ll write about this.  I LOVE the autonomy.  Love Love Love it. And as soon as the article is up, it starts getting clicks, and clicks lead to revenue.

Although right now, I think I’ve made about 57 cents.

Okay, so the jury is still out on revenue. I’ve done the math every way I can figure, and it still seems a crap shoot to me. I can see where it could work out very nicely long term, but I also don’t think anyone in their right mind would want to wager a whole lot on how Internet revenue models are going to work for writers a few years down the road. But if, a year or so from now, I decide it’s a bust — I’ll still have rights to my work, and can repurpose and repackage it.  I’m feeling optimistic, and I have to say that that hasn’t been true in the writing biz for a long time.

Here’s my bio page: http://www.suite101.com/profile.cfm/karenberger

And here’s a list of articles: http://www.suite101.com/writer_articles.cfm/karenberger

A few weeks ago I blogged about some of the challenges of freelancing in the current economic conditions, and some of the steps I’m taking to not only survive in this difficult economy, but make the best of it. 

http://createworklive.com/2008/11/22/silver-linings-in-stormy-clouds/

http://createworklive.com/2008/11/20/surviving-the-recession/

Here’s another site, called The Writer’s Place, that’s giving some great advice to freelance writers this week: http://nancychristie.blogspot.com/

Is it a new business model to empower writers or a new way of making money off of writers?

After 28 years in the business (my first bylined article was published while I was still in college) I’m ASSUMING the latter.  I’m just cynical enough to look through jaundiced yellow glasses at anything that promises writers a way of doing business that actually works for writers.

God knows it’s not happening in our traditional markets. The facts of the matter are that newspapers and magazines are folding, rates for freelance writers have not budged for the ENTIRE time I’ve been working in this industry, and in some cases, they’ve actually gone down.  Ad pages are down, which means editorial pages are down, which means work available to freelancers is down. Contracts have gotten more and more restrictive and editor-writer relations are, across the industry, at an all-time low.

I’m lucky — I have some regular markets and some editors who like me. As long as they stay employed, all is well and good. In the last year, I’ve done stories about hiking in South Africa, England, New Zealand, Colorado, and British Columbia, helicopter adventure travels in 10 different countries, iconic music cities, helicopter hiking, beaches in Massachusetts, beach hiking in the Hamptons, winter hiking in five locations nationwide, and a host of other topics I can’t even remember.

But I’ve been looking at the future, and from where I sit, it seems uncertain, especially in the current economic situation. So I’ve been researching websites that act as a sort of online repository: They get writers to submit articles, then pay them a royalty based on how many people view the articles and click on the ads. In a sense, it’s not that different from a traditional book publishing arrangement, except there isn’t an advance up front.  Then again, with the speed of the Internet, articles earn money the minute they hit the ether. Or, at least, that’s the point.

So I’ve signed on for one, called www.Suite101.com.

Here’s the deal: You have to apply by sending writing samples and a resume.  Suite101 claims 12 million readers (whatever that means) a month, and they ask writers to submit about one 400 – 600 word article a week.  You give them a year’s Internet exclusive (you can still sell print rights). After a year, the stories stay on Suite101, but you can republish them on other Internet sites.  You get paid monthly, based on clicks.  

It seems like there are upsides and downsides, and sometimes the mirror has two faces.

Upside: If you adhere to the basic template, the editors basically leave you alone.

Downside: If you adhere to the basic template the editors basically leave you alone.  As someone who has to edit and re-edit blog posts for typos 20 times even AFTER spell check, I really DO appreciate good editing. Or any editing. Suite101 expects you to come in clean.

Upside: You can write anything you want, and as long as it fits the template, everything is fine.

Downside: Anybody else can write whatever THEY want, including something on the same topic you’ve just written on. And if their work isn’t clean, or well-written, it drags down the level of the whole site.   

But here”s the beauty of it: No query letters. Someone else deals with the ad people and the money. Someone else deals with the search engine optimization. Instead of having to build a site and an audience from scratch, you hook in immediately to a market of readers. And your writing becomes an income stream that pays off as long as it keeps earning eyeballs.

Don’t we writers often whine about how all we want to do is write? Don’t we say that we don’t want editors making us tailor our copy to their advertisers or demanding answers to questions we answered in our first draft?  

True, the templates are extremely limiting. I write a lot of service stories (meaning stories that offer useful take-away information to the reader), and I usually prefer to write them in first and second person. Suite101 requires all third-person writing, although a quick look shows that some editors are stricter than others. It’s a challenge for me to write in an engaging non-passive third-person style, and not resort to tired (but grammatically correct) language and lazy answers: “There is …” “There are…” “If one want to do this, one should do that…” 

But I can only be what I am, which is a writer. So I carefully edit, and spend more time than perhaps I should.

And here’s the fantastic great news: I LOVE to write. That’s the not-so-secret secret these sites know about us writers. If they give us the freedom to write — we will write. And write. And write.

I feel like I’ve been let out of jail: All of these stories are springing forth; I’ve got a list of 100 topics to hit in the next year or two. I wrote seven stories this week alone — stories on diving in Belize and sailing the Grenadines and skiing in the Berkshires…

I have no idea if my enthusiasm will hold, if this will take root, or if the financial return will be worth the work. Like a book, there’s an element of risk for the creator. But I am amassing a huge amount of material I can repurpose later, I’m writing what I want to write about, and there is an income stream involved.

The Internet has been a double-edged sword to creators. It has decimated the recording industry, shaken the copyright laws to their roots, and is now taking on newspapers and magazines. It would be nice to think that it offers the creators themselves some opportunities: To reach audiences without a middlemamn, to profit from their work.

I don’t know if this is the answer, but it might be part of an answer. I’m willing to write… and see.    

Check out my page at http://www.suite101.com/profile.cfm/karenberger

2008: Looking Back

I got inspired by a fellow writer’s blog post on her top five things from 2008 ( http://sherionwriting.blogspot.com/). So I’m going to derail from my “how starving artists can buy a house” series to reflect a bit, and post about some of the highlights of my 2008.

1) 2008 was about finding balance between my writing life and my music life. How to balance traveling while teaching piano lessons? How to deal with lots and lots of students wanting lessons – while fewer and fewer editors are buying stories? And what about practicing the piano (which is its own juggling act, as I bounce between jazz, classical, and rock music)? I won’t say I figured out the answer, but I found some new writing markets, went on some great trips, have my teaching studio at a manageable level, and enjoyed playing out. Can’t ask for more than that. 

2) Trips: Scuba diving in Belize, St. Vincent, and St. Lucia reminded me (as if I needed reminding) how much I love being underwater. Diving the Lesleen M. wreck in St. Lucia was an absolute highlight: Swimming through the corridors between windows covered with brilliant coral was like floating in fairyland.

3) Learning that my DK book, Backpacking and Hiking, was translated into 12 languages. When the publisher sent me — unexpectedly, and with no forenotice — the Czech and Hungarian editions, it occrred to me to think it was pretty strange that a book would be translated into only Spanish (an edition I already knew about) and two relatively obscure eastern European languages. Some vanity-googling discovered editions in several other languages, and a request for info from the publisher revealed that there are actually 12 editions out there. I gave the Czech edition to my dad, who is Czech. He rerpots that the translator used informal “street” language — which “hurts his ears.” 

4) Playing out: We had some fun gigs in 2008, especially the  Riverside Jam, which took place in Fox Lake in August, the Dewey Hall Folk Series, where we headlined in October (bet you didn’t know you could get away with playing “Time Bomb ” at a “folk” series!), the Monterey General store, where we not only gave a couple of our regular shows, but were also featured as an act in the semi-annual “big big concert” in the church across the street, and of course, Fod Fest, where we celebrated the life and music of Wall Street Journal reporter Daniel Pearl by performing at the beautiful Mahaiwe Theater in Great Barrington at the tour’s kick-off concert. 

5) The elections. The elections. The elections!!!!!!

The work-at-home artist has a particularly challenging job when looking for new digs. You have to think about all the things everyone else has to worry about – how soon after the purchase the furnace will self-destruct, when was the roof put on, what is that funny-smelling green stuff in the basement, and how much is it going to cost to replace the half-rotten 40-year-old dark-brown cork paneling in the family room. And you have to  think about all the things people worry about when they are buying a business: Is it convenient for clients, is there enough space, where will people park, is high-speed internet available, what if you have to expand?

Imagining how space could be reallocated or improved is the creative part, but there is also a practical element. Building costs are sky-rocketing, and no one likes dealing with contractors who don’t show up for months on end. It pays to get it right the first time.

  • Think about your needs in two separate packages: Home and family versus business and clients. How many people will be working at home? One person working at home creates a completely different situation than two creatives sharing a workspace (When you are sharing space 24 – 7 — you need a LOT of space). If you’ve got a family on top of that, you should be looking for a property that has clearly delineated work and family areas – preferably separated by walls and doors.
  • Look at different configurations: In rural areas, houses often have outbuildings that can be turned into studio space. A garage (or the second floor of a garage) can be a recording studio,  rehearsal space, writing room, photo lab, or artist’s studio. But don’t make assumptions: If you’re serious about a property, get a contractor to give you an estimate of what it’s going to take to turn that old cowshed into a state-of-the-art video lab. 
  • In rural areas, look for properties zoned mixed residential-commercial, especially if you plan to sell your creations, or if walk-in and client traffic will be large parts of your business. Rural areas have a long tradition of living in the back and selling or working out the front.
  • In suburban areas, you may be looking at garage space, or attics and basements. Split levels often have separate entrances for the lower level, which keeps business and family separate. Rambling houses to which new rooms and wings have been  added on over the years can also be suitable for a separate-feeling workspace. An ideal set-up might include a waiting room (if you teach), a separate entrance, and a separate powder room.  
  • In urban areas, lofts are one ideal situation, at least for solo artists, but in many cities, the cost of lofts has spiralled out of the price range of your typical self-supporting artist. Another issue: They also don’t always work well with families, although creative people come up with creative solutions: I know one couple, both artists, who shared a loft, and whose three-year-old had his own “room” in a large freestanding mountaineering tent pitched in a corner of the living room. Small apartment buildings, two-flats, or brownstones with ”carriage houses” in the back are another option. In more standard apartments, you may have to settle for less space — or consider renting and sharing separate work space with other artists.
  • If your work involves paints, chemicals, and fumes, make sure there is adequate ventilation in the space where you plan to work.
  • Is noise going to be an issue? Power tools or music can disturb the neighbors. And neighbors can disturb you. How much will sound-proofing cost?
  • Parking: If your business involves frequent visitors, there has to be a place for them to put their cars.  (Or, if you’re in an urban area, and parking is tight, you need to be near a reasonable public transportation conduit.)
  • In rural areas: Will your home-office-studio be accessible year-round? That picturesque country road that looks so colorful and pretty in September might be the last on the county’s plow schedule come January. (If , that is,  it gets plowed at all. )  
  • Zoning is a biggie: Check with the town office and READ THE BY-LAWS yourself (AND run them by your lawyer)  before you make an offer. By-laws can determine (among other things) which businesses are forbidden, which are allowed, which are allowed in what parts of town, which types of businesses need certain amounts of parking, how many clients or students you are allowed to see each week, which hours you can work, and a raft of other issues — most of which you can’t even begin to anticipate. 
  • Choose wisely: Unique, funky, one-of-a-kind homes are great for artists; If you plan on staying put for a number of years, your home can be as idiosyncratic as you like. But resale value is also important: A house that makes a perfect music studio and pottery shop might not work for the vast majority of buyers who come in with standard-issue families and needs.
  • Be realistic about your work habits and needs: Over the long haul, most people find they need some space separation between work life and home life, or else they goof off when they should be working, and work when they should be with their families. Make sure your space matches your work style.
  • Take a non-artist with you when you’ve narrowed down your list. You need someone to point out that a hole in the roof is not a skylight, and that the flooded areas in front of the house is neither a lake nor a skating rink .

Also see: http://createworklive.com/2008/12/10/home-sweet-home-buying-a-house/

Note the wagon-wheel light fixture

Moving Day: Note the wagon-wheel light fixture

Buying a house sits right there on the top of virtually every American’s dream list. For the self-employed creative, it can be a daunting process (and we’ll talk about mortgages and other icky business issues in another post).

But today, I’m thinking about the process of choosing a house, and I’ve come up with the idea that we creative types are at a distinct disadvantage — or is it advantage? — when choosing the house that will become our Home Sweet Home. 

You be the judge. 

Take your basic linear thinker. I’m not trying to pigeonhole anyone here, but I’m  talking along the lines of your stereotypical accountant — Someone who sees the world as logical and orderly. When Mr. and  Ms. Logical go to buy a house, they arrive prepared with a list of  “must haves.”  And their “must haves” are mostly in line with lots of other people’s “must haves.”  So they want a nice private master bath, and a “media room” and a backyard big enough to play in but not too big to mow, and they want appliances from the latest status kitchen appliance maker (or if necessary, affordable knock-offs).  Their budget may dictate just how much of their list they get to have, but in the end, what they end up with will look a lot like what they imagined, if maybe a wee bit smaller.  For the most part, your basic home-buyer isn’t going to say, “Oh, look honey, I know we decided on a three bedroom split level with attached garage, but just look at that cute little yurt!”

Us arty types, on the other hand — we’re all about the yurt.

Or the possibilities of it. 

The real estate agents can see us coming a mile away. They hear the word “artist” and every crumbling outbuilding (originally used to milk cows in 1782) becomes a “potential studo.”   A writer might fit perfectly in that basement with the not-quite-six-foot ceilings — writers sit down all day don’t they? As for a  musician – - That house on top of “You-can’t-get-there-from-here Hill ” would be perfect.  No neighbors to complain about the late night drumming….  And so what if there are no services like cable TV, high speed Internet, or  cell-phone reception: Artists need solitude, no?  

And we play right along with it. A house with a jacuzzi in the living room? How original.  An apartment with no kitchen sink ? (Don’t laugh — A musician friend of mine didn’t happen to notice this little quirk when she signed a lease, and ended up washing her dishes in the bathroom.) A three-story home where the first story was once used as a barbershop? How quaint — except that the fixtures are all 75 years old, and the property is now zoned residential. (Not to mention: What DOES one do with the ruins of a 75-year old barbershop?)

“Imagine the possibilities,” the real estate agents gush, and we do…  After all, if there’s one thing we’re good at, it’s imagining things. We’re the ones who see a leaky basement and imagine a swimming pool. We see the old barbershop, and hear a quartet.

I got lucky. When I look back at the houses I was shown in my quest for a home, I feel like I dodged a barrage of bullets, each one a different ridiculous house with a different ridiculous quirk.  And that’s saying something, if you could see the house I ended up in:  A homeowner-built ski chalet with lots of what the real estate agent referred to as “personality.”

Personality is a good thing — in a person. In a house, not so much.  

When Mr. and Ms. Logical are ready to take their next step on the ladder of American dreams, they won’t have any trouble selling their split level.  Someone else may have to update their Corian to marble, or their granite to concrete, or maybe it will be time for the newest color in kitchen appliances. But there will be a next person. 

I’m pretty sure there will be a next person to fall in love with my house,  just like I did. But it won’t be Mr. and Ms. Logical. There isn’t a single thing about my house that is standard. Everything is oversized and overscale, from the 50-foot long living room to the 18-foot tall fireplace. It has wide-planked pecan (I was told) wood floors that would be near impossible to replace, barnboard walls (chestnut, we think) salvaged from a falling-down barn, and thick stone floors (also salvaged) in the basement. And a 6-foot diameter wagon-wheel light fixture hangs from the ceiling — taken, I was told, from a local slaughterhouse. (I was going to get rid of it, but truth is, it has grown on me, and it perfectly fits the house. The native American dreamcatcher we have hung from  it seems to have dispelled any bad karma.)  And the kitchen? From the cracked laminate countertops to the Rube Goldberg contraption that functions as an exhaust  fan, we are talking one big  make-over-in-the-making.

And THIS is the most “normal house” I even considered buying. Fortunately, I plan to stay here forever. My house is perfect for two work-at home creatives. It is big and open, with enough space to offer privacy. It has enough room for 20 people to jam together, and for office desks to be tucked into corners where they look out on the view, but don’t get in the way. There is space for two pianos and an organ, and two people can give music lessons at the same time, or one can write and one can teach. There’s an outbuilding that may one day become a guesthouse, and a garage with an unfinished second floor we might someday turn into a recording studio.  And yes, it is located on top of “You Can’t Get There From Here Hill,” which ices over every winter and washes out every spring, and where our nearest neighbor just happens to be a drummer.  Sometimes, on summer nights when the windows are open, we can hear him practicing. One of these days, we will make time to play together.

It’s true, this house is not for everyone.  But when, and if, it is ever time to move, I have complete confidence that some other creative type will wander in — and immediately “imagine the possibilities.”

I’m sure many freelancers would agree that NOT having to attend a mandatory office Christmas party is one of the GOOD things about working for yourself…. 

So, when a couple of weeks ago, David asked me if I wanted to have an office Christmas party, I looked at him as if he had grown two heads. He explained that Crissey Farm (http://crisseyfarm.com/), a neighborhood banquet hall where we have hosted and attended some music events, was putting on an “office Christmas party” for small businesses in our community, and that since the two of us are a “business,” our “office” could attend.  The idea being that an office of four or five or six (or, in our case two) people might not be able to put on a big holiday shindig, but various small offices could band together to be part of a larger event. With 150 or so people, you can put on a real dinner party, complete with a DJ and dancing, and you can have it in a nice space, too.  (Crissey Farm is a spanking new green building, with a warmer, more personal feel than your basic hotel banquet hall;  it’s ideal for events up to about 200 people).

It’s a great idea, really: I remember that when I worked in “real jobs” in “real companies,”  the office party was seldom my idea of a good time. I mostly found that in a business setting, as in life, there are people you gravitate to as friends  and people you don’t, and the latter outnumber the former. Enforced jollity with people you have mostly chosen not to socialize with can be awkward, especially when coupled with office hierarchy. 

But at this party, you could network, chat, and socialize all around the community; you could roam around, outside the confines of your own little group. We were seated at the table of a publisher of a local ad magazine, who made us feel very welcome. Our dinner companions included a fellow writer and a fellow musician; it was all very congenial, and who knows, maybe we’ll get the musician over to our place to jam sometime. 

It turned out that David and I knew a handful of people from various different offices: Some were students, or friends of students, or parents of students, or fellow musicians.  Next year, we plan to try to put a table together, and make sure that other self-employed creatives we know in our community — fellow teachers and musicians, the owners of the local music store, piano tuners, and such — know about the event and can come and join us. 

So I’m looking forward to an office Christmas party, a year in advance. Who’d have thought THAT was was possible?

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